Publication Date: July 16, 2023
"This is my memoir - a very personal story of families and fate"
The Fate We Make: Heartbreak, is the first volume of a remarkable, occasionally tragic, but ultimately redemptive coming-of-age story. From an early age, Simone Warren recognised that she was caught between her family's expectations and her need to find her own path and voice. Born into a Singaporean Chinese family and a life rooted in tradition, her story is a stunning tale of survival and an inspiring look at how we can learn to move beyond trauma to forge a path toward finding hapiness.
Raised in a family populated with strong women but laced with the strife of the generations that preceded her, Simone's life story reads like an inter-continental odyssey that follows her from an exceptional childhood, through her tumultuous teens and toward young womanhood - as she endeavours to make peace with a decision that she will love with forever.
Recounting in beautiful detail the lives of the powerful women who shaped her family and how their stories informed her place in the world. this first instalment in a trilogy of deeply personal memoirs is an unflinching look at finding oneself in the midst of crushing expectation and unexpected tragedy. Journeying beyond survival to success.
I've never read a memoir before but I have read quite a few coming-of-age stories and this was definitely of the most heartfelt but tragic so far.
There were lots of aspects that I felt readers could connect too, especially those who grew up religious or didn't have english as their first language. Revisiting the past and learning so much, as well as a lot of self-healing. It makes us as a reader step. back and look at our past and how we should reflect on both good and bad actions we may have taken and where they may have lead. Hearing how Simone's story was made me go through many different emotions.
This memoir shed light on who we could be and how that arises from the various situations we are potentially put in. How can we learn from making the wrong decision? Religion? Heartbreak? Self-Love? Growth? What do we choose and when is it the right time.
If you like listening to music whilst reading then you should be happy to know that throughout this book there are QR Codes which you can scan to listen to the right song at the right time.
There's pictures, graphs, family tree. Everything to help you understand Simone's story even better as well as feeling the emotion she felt. It was definitely not a memoir that made me bored. It was very engaging and even full of dialogue. This was my first memoir but it will not be my last.
This is Book One: Heartbreak and I can't wait to read more of Simone's story.
Thank you so much for the physical arc
TW: Depression
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